I know this to be true in mine, and my H's life of over 26 years. We are like left, and right, and once he has physically/sexually abused me, but emotionally abuses most days. I know this is wrong to let him by with all of this, but our situation is complicated. I pray that some day he will fix himself, or I will be able to change this, but there isn't anything I can do at this time, and we do have over 26 years together, and this alone makes it hard.