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Originally Posted by Dnester
Well I am not married anymore but hope to be in a relationship soon. When I watch porn I do feel a little turned on. Mainly I just think about sex with my ex husband even though he is remarried. When we were married it annoyed me ( the contamination part, the begging for it part, the facial expressions like it was the best thing in the world) Make believe is fine.
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Well, this is very complex. The porn turns you on to thoughts about your ex-husband, but only in a make believe way. Yet, actually being with him is what triggered the feelings of repulsion. I guess this makes sense in a way, since our fantasies edit out what turns us off and amplifies what most arouses us.