Oh gosh, I'm so sorry to hear that you are getting all this cr--ap put on you from these 2 men. The cr--ap that they're trying to load onto you, is really their own cr--ap, which they are unable to handle. I would be very tempted to ditch the therapist at this point, as I can't see what benefit it would be to you, to see him again. He doesn't sound as though he's interested in what is best for you. Did you manage to find another one?

It takes 2 people to make a relationship work. While it might be convenient for your husband to blame you for your relationship problems, he really needs to look at his own short comings... The way in which he expresses his anger being one of them. It's never one person. xx