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Default Dec 02, 2018 at 08:16 AM
 
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Originally Posted by toomanycats View Post
I have strong paternal transference for my T. He embraced it & it is a big part of our therapy. Definitely no referral elsewhere.
How is it a big part of therapy? I do not understand how it is used as a modality? Is your T older or younger than you?

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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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