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Originally Posted by DechanDawa
I don't think anyone handles loneliness very well. On the other hand...holding onto toxic situations out of a fear of being alone isn't very good either. Spending time alone can strengthen one's character and confidence and you will attract different sorts of people. I got rid of all toxic frenemies/egomaniacs...and guess what? -- I don't miss them!
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Well, there are clearly people who deal with being alone a lot better than others. I think I didn't express myself correctly: loneliness is clearly a bad thing, while being alone doesn't necessarily bring on loneliness. But you get the point.
I agree with your second statement. Nobody should be forced to endure any toxic situations and/or friendships and, in that case, being alone is probably a better option. Still, I can't quite muster the necessary courage to end it all with my friends. That's a weakness of mine. Problem is I don't have much of a chance of developing any new and meaningful friendship where I live since the biggest part of people here are... well, not very interesting, with limited tastes, rude and loud, and I don't like that. My best bet would probably be to find out strategies to deal with being alone in order to make solitude productive and positive, just like you said.