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Default Dec 03, 2018 at 10:13 AM
 
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Originally Posted by TeaVicar? View Post
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Strong feelings of love and attachment come up a lot in therapy and yet, it doesn't feel as though therapists or the therapy system are able to adequately help the process. I get the impression, that most therapists are winging it, and it's the clients who suffer.
Thanks. It feels very good to see/read you acknowledge that -- it makes me cry! A good thing, for me, I can't usually do that.

A life so ruined! Almost gone! Wish it were. . .

I chased the pipe dream of therapy -- "idealizing transference" some might call it -- but nobody that I saw in therapy helped with that, or noticed it so far as I know.

It so really sucks.
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