i get you im the same due to long period of unemployment and loosing parents ect life can just beat you down but in order to regain confidence you have to act and get on and do key things in life. i know i feel **** because i dont do anything i sleep all day and just watch tv all night. so i know i need to get out thier and do things no one can be good at everything just try and find something that you enjoy and to to do that on a often basis