Why is it that the doctors dont seem to get anxieties with agoraphobia? I have told my doctor time and time again I cannot come to see her because I have agoraphobia really bad which is true, Now she says she understands but clearly she doesnt. Why dont doctors seem to get our phobias? They seem to think we are making them up. Hardly. If I could go out I would but I just cannot make an appointment when they want. She said she gets it that is bull.I have told her numerous times that I just cannot get into a car when she feels like it. It is not that easy for me, I just dont like going out. Now I dont mind sitting outside during the summer by the way that is a big step for me because only a couple of years ago you would have not found me outside at all, I wish they would read up on anxieties and phobias,they just dont seem to get how scary life can be for us. I am so sick and tired of having to explain myself to them,I often wonder how they would feel if they were scared.