A long time friend of mine can't remember my birthday.even though I have the same birthday as is mom. Multiple times he has said over & over how I am one of his only friends & he only has a dozen people on his contact list on his phone.that's mostly family & work contact on his phone & me.but I usually am the one contacting him on holidays etc.so it kind of annoys me ok it really annoys me.i have told him it hurts my feelings he can't remember my birthday.one year he remembers & the next year he forgets.he has said he never wants to make me feeling bad because he values our friendship.at the middle of 2016 he started working one full time & one part time job.so I realize he is busy.but to forget my birthday & him remembering one year has annoyed me & made me think he doesn't care & never thinks of me