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Originally Posted by Hey Gem
It was all that went on. I was suprised that he made a joke like that, am it felt almost suggestive and the kind of jokes you'd make with a male friend not a counselor, am I overreacting for thinking that?
However, he does seem like someone who would respect boundaries, he seems to appreciate my opinions.
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Those cases are hard to judge based purely on the description. Most of communication is non-verbal. Without seeing a person's face, hearing their voice, seeing the gestures and such, it's hard to judge the intention by the content of what was said only.
The fact that he switched to a serious tone immediately after saying it suggests that he didn't mean to flirt. If he had meant to flirt, I think, he would've kept it up, at least, this has been my experience with those who flirt.
If this doesn't happen again, I'd dismiss it as a joke. I don't think it's worth it reading too much into what people mean by saying this or that. Even when something bothered you, if it's been just a single occurrence and never led anywhere, it's not a problem that is worth worrying about.