Instead of letting a situation control me and make me anxious I just asked the person why she was asking the question. Which was Inappropriate, nosy and none of her business. Watching her stutter and not really be able to answer why she was asking the question (she didn’t want to admit she was just being judgemental and rude) made me feel satisfied. She did finally give me an answer that made no sense. But it felt good sticking up for myself for once.