Thank you so much everyone for the information and advice. I really do appreciate it. I’ve been giving online dating ago and well someone asked me out. I didn’t feel I was ready to go out with them that fast, so I told them I was naturally shy and wanted to get to know her better. And also luckily I do know her somewhat as we went to high school together years ago. She seems to be fine with just talking for now, which is great. I’ll be taking all the advice that was given in the above posts. It’s really good to have somewhere I can post and ask questions like these. Thanks again everyone and Have a great Holiday(which ever you may celebrate)