Yes I know and my daughter’s coming home and I’ve got to hide this from her. She doesn’t like it when I get hurt over him. I thought we could work things out while she was gone but it didn’t happen. It was my clearly stated intention to him but he didn’t accept one of my invitations to go do something. The person who said I needed to take time to think things over was right. That should be allowed in a relationship. I didn’t cut him off. I simply wanted to ease back into it after being apart for 3 years especially now that I’m working full time. I didn’t know how to juggle a relationship and a job and he made fun of me for that. In my previous relationship my now ex husband was very erratic and I don’t have that kind of flexibility or energy anymore. Previous when I was seeing my fiancé I wasn’t working so I could just do whatever. I’m actually a lot healthier now then I was then but ironically he says now I’m very unhealthy. Go figure!