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Originally Posted by leomama
It is the same man and he is divorced which is the reason for the 3 year separation. I love him and am in love with him
And was prepared to deal with the challenges . I don’t understand why he didn’t just tell me he didn’t love me anymore instead of telling me he loved me twice, and telling me to
Fix it, and getting furious with me for accusing him
Of gaslighting and telling me he wasn’t with anyone else. Why would he tell me to fix it and then go and turn his phone off? Why not just say goodbye?
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Because he isn’t a decent human being. People who lie like he does (among other not so nice things he did) do not live by the same rules as decent people do.
My therapist always says that it’s a waste of time trying to figure out why people do what they do as you might never get an answer. All we can do is focus on why we do what we do.