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lors
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Default Dec 15, 2018 at 06:20 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Little Lulu View Post
Don't resist anxious feelings ... what we resist persists. Allow it in and let the anxiety flow through you, as if you are porous. Then let it drain away. I use visuals with this technique, can actually "see" the anxiety passing through my body and then "see" it going down a drain in the floor below me. Very powerful technique that I find helpful.
I used to do this before but found that it took too long for it to "drain away." Usually it happens to me in meetings at work and I really need to be good by then.

Comedy was my go-to strategy since it would get everyone relaxed and positive and I in turn become relaxed and positive.

Thankfully, I've been dealing with this long enough to know that it will pass and that it's self-induced. Knowing the triggers, I can already guard myself.
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