I had a friend who has always been single for her own reasons. At a dinner party, our other friend's wife...in a loud voice in front of everyone asked: "So when was the last time you were actually on a date??!" The person she was asking had never been on a date in her life. I felt so bad for her. She was really embarrassed. But it's like her very existence as a non-dating adult woman just shocks or annoys some people to their core. Sigh.