Echos, you probably know that I don't tend to relate much to those kinds of feelings, but they are not hard to understand at all just objectively. I don't find anything scary about the video either, and I am definitely one who does not like intrusion into my personal space and tend to react to it strongly. But, as you said, these are fantasies. I understand how such fantasies might scare someone a bit but would expect a T to have heard it a million times. I guess the T probably expressed his immediate thought on an impulse and I understand that as well - therapist or not, it must be hard having to control oneself perfectly at all times, I think expecting that is a bit too much to ask of anyone. To me, that song/video is more funny than anything else, coming from someone self-aware enough to see both the reality and humor in it. It is also clear from the comments to the video how common these feelings are and people tend to relate to them. Not everyone but more than a couple people.