i felt very jealous of in my relationship with my husband, i guess i didn't trust him for awhile after we got married. i never was before a jealous person. i had to talk myself out of it in my head and it became less and less as we grew older together. now i have a bit of what i would call a healthy jealousy as when i feel frightened of someone i'm feeling jealous of, such as another woman, it brings me closer to my husband and i even like the way it feels. i know that may sound not right, but it even makes me feel lucky to have him.