I don't recognise that in my therapy.
When T continued to respond gently to me and still allow me to reach out to her during one of my less than better days. I felt totally lost. I had been raised by damaged adult children that reacted to me. To have a functioning adult respond and continue to treat me with respect no matter Mt behaviour was a Hugh difference in my life.
Find a functioning adult. Not an adult child Thats jumped into the mental health field to satisfy themselves.