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Originally Posted by whatdoesitmean
Somebody giving you a gift is not your problem. If you don't want to give back, you don't have to. If they understand the meaning of "giving", they will not expect anything of you. And, you should not feel obligated to give back, giving just because you feel obligated is not giving, anyway.
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My issue is that I don't really believe that in my head. My head thinks as sure as can be... they they are counting and I will have to do something for them.
But I didn't want to focus on a gift... anything that someone else does for me .. even if it is their job.
Such as my local grocery store takes the carriage out to your car - I always try to get out of it, even though it is the persons job, I will be like... no no I got this.. even if I look ridiculous because I clearly don't got it and could use a hand.