Yes...I would drop a therapist for scoffing and constantly being made to feel invalid...I can get that for free anywhere.
I can understand the need for a recorder in meetings and appointments, I’ve often thought about that one myself due to a bad memory and the blanks.
Half the time most of everything I say is a blur and I can’t remember what was said by this mouth. I don’t even recognize my own voice.
It sounds like your T is frustrated and has lost patience with you and is reaching her limits. Instead of her taking charge like actually recording your sessions and giving it to you, she’s just expecting you to take the initiative and being a bleep when it wasn’t done. Her actions are highly inappropriate and method leaves a lot to be desired.
This nothing on you....it’s all her.
Find you a better T.