Kala- you and me both, and I would love to tell you that I found the solution. I have not. BUT certain things have helped me. I get up ridiculously early (I love it) and I always set my coffee up the night before. My alarm goes off, slippers and robe goes on, water poured and coffee brewing and take meds immediately. Then I sit down for an hour to myself to read. I love this time. I hate dishes even with a dishwasher I hate them. For some reason about 6 months ago I got tired of having to do two or three days of dishes and started doing them everyday. I do them in the morning. So who give a f**k if there are dinner dishes in the sink, the point is once a day I do them.