Dear T,
So...while looking for stuff about my H possibly being on the spectrum, I came across this long list of traits that females with (the disorder formerly known as) Asperger's tend to have. And...it's eerily similar to me. Apparently females on the high-functioning end of the spectrum can actually have lots of empathy. So now I'm really wondering...Suppose I'll print out that list and bring it with me tomorrow.
Love,
LT