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Originally Posted by BWBorealis
The fear of abandonment thing confuses me because I’m not sure if I have that in the classical sense. But what I tend to do is push people away whenever I feel an inclination of rejection or a sense of perceived abandonment. So I push and cut off before I can go through the painful feelings of being abandoned. I guess it’s just a different side of the same coin? 🤷🏽*♂️
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I think you’re right. (I’m not even close to understand or knowing about it). But, I was thinking what you said and maybe, the pushing away is only a mean to seek for validation in order to check the possibilities of a more or less soon abandonment.