When i got my keys , i was given 3. He took 2 keys without asking me and said in case i lose my key . this is not the first time he arrived at mine without me knowing while im asleep and let himself in . my mum treats me even worse than him ( they are separated ) but me and my mum fell out on boxing day because she was screaming at me and i had enough. Im so sick of how family members try to judge me and dictate my life for me . im really struggling with this . its harder for me to achieve my goals when all this happens all the time . as for setting boundaries im kind of scared. My family members make me feel like a child or a disobidient dog . im 37 years of age.