Hey- my BF just slipped and used after 3.5 years of being sober. It's not a full relapse, it was (HOPEFULLY) a one time thing. He was honest and told me right after it happened- something I am HUGELY thankful for and respect that he told me since, during his years of dependence, lying was the norm and a daily aspect of our relationship. I have experience working with people with addictions from the "outside," and also know personally what addictions can do on the "inside" since I battle an eating disorder. The reason I am posting here is because when my BF slipped up, he asked me not to tell anyone. I'm just struggling with trying to process my thoughts and emotions, and I feel helpless and flooded with everything in my head since I'm just keeping it all inside and not telling anyone. I'm struggling trying to sort everything out in my head and heart. Any advise?