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divine1966 · Jan 07, 2019 at 03:39 AM

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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel

Boundaries aren't blurred. I don't see how this blurrs boundaries. Again, I look up everyone. I've looked up Ts, Pdocs, PCPs, hair stylist, ob/gyn, past friends, etc. Beyond that, I don't pry into their lives. Sure I might ask a question here and there (i.e. what's your favorite color?), but for the most part, I let them tell me about themselves.

I think it might blurr boundaries because his FB profile is locked so it’s a sign that he doesn’t want strangers to look at it but you went through his wife. You looked up her and her pictures and she has not part of the equation. Not saying it’s illegal or dangerous but just something that blurrs boundaries. Doesn’t matter if she is a sister or a wife. If you wanted to know if he is married or has dogs you could ask your current therapist. She probably would tell you that.

Again not saying you have malicious intent at all but it’s just something to look into if you tend to become attached to people. Just something to be aware.