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Old 01-07-2019, 11:18 AM
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Default Re: Advice needed on triggering person?

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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky View Post
I'm so sorry, Pinocchio46 I think a solution could be to write to her, instead of talking face-to-face. The decision of reading or replying will then be up to her. You could say you're sorry for how things went down, if you're still feeling guilty. Or you may simply thank her for the help she provided so far. I think it's important to give it some kind of closure. I also think it could be useful to find some more friends, if you haven't already. That way you'll be able to talk to a variety of people. Do you see a therapist? Maybe that could help. Sending many hugs to you
I have written stuff in the past, I thanked her a few times and apologised for certain things that happened on Facebook before Christmas and wrote her a nice card with a letter in it saying how much she meant to me for Christmas. She replied to all of the messages on Facebook positively but I didn't hear anything back from the card. I've not talked to her since she thanked me for the present I got her, which she said was so thoughtful and she "****ing loved it" =] (I only bring that up because it makes me happy to think of her excited when she opened it.) haha.

One of our friends said she was a little upset because I thought I hurt her when I didn't, another said she's just been smoking a lot of pot lately (which I hope isn't because of me) and another said she just needs to know I'm okay because it was tough for her to see me like that.

I don't really know what to believe and I'm kind of done looking back at what happened because it's exhausting and I want to focus on myself =] haha

But I just struggle when I see her, the only way I can describe it is I can feel the blood rushing out of my head. I want to give her time, but I just need to learn how to cope being around her, because it was really hard today =[
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