I doubt that your thoughts actually equate to reality. However....instead of trying to prove one way or the other...would it be the worst thing if you are right? In TV shows the guy always gets the girl...the nice guy always wins..and good triumphs over evil. I guess it depends on how you look at it.
The thing is... that it matters not what is 'actually' happening...What matters is how we perceive and react to it.