I love it how people think its ok to question someone (many times women)about why they are not in a relationship or why they do not have kids. As if its their business. Would you ask someone with kids in a relationship.." so why did you have kids and marry? Did you really want to bring people into this world and ruin your freedom?" Its the same thing. I have kids and I never would question another woman's choice to not have kids or marry. What if she is infertile or cant have children? Its not my business.