Thanks for clarifying I really do not know much about narcissistic people even though I may have dealt with undiagnosed people who may have had those traits. Do you have to deal with the person starring at you? Like is it possible to either avoid them altogether or severely limit contact? Can you remove yourself from them when you see they are looking at you. My only advice( and this comes after years of therapy and sobriety) is to meet their eyes with a defiant stare back even if it makes you scared sh*tless to do it, sort of like a starring contest. I do not tend to need to use my facial expressions to convey anger or defiance but when I have tried I think of how the other person is nothing to me, that they are human and I do not have to be afraid of them in order to conjure up a good stare. But this is hard to do if you have unresolved feelings and situations with this person or maybe have suffered trauma because of them. If you had asked me how I would have done this before sobriety I would not have been sure of myself or felt strong enough to do it. I guess self confidence helps with this too. I have made peace with most of my past trauma and mistakes so I feel more strength making eye contact than not making eye contact. This is extremely hard when you are in the thick of things, having an emotional "flare up" or working through some serious trauma. Its definitely easier said than done and I would never pick on someone who feels they cant stare back. To summarize, I try to fight fire with fire when I can.