I'm not sure people understand irl how much losing Ebony hurt, three says I'm responsible for that

I could of done more to save her

I should of done more to save her

Why don't people understand that she was more than "just a cat"? You wouldn't say that about a human family member so why say it about a fur-family member?

people irl I mean, they don't "get it"

Have they ever had their heart not just broke but completely shattered by the loss of a loved one, no matter what the species?

Yes I should be "over it" by now but comments like that are not helpful

people in real life I mean, not on this forum