I'm so sorry, Butterfly1971 I have already replied to your previous thread. I think you need to evalute this relationship and see the pros and cons, and why you're attracted to this man. Personally, I think talking about feelings is fundamental in every relationship. So that may cause some problems in the future. Think deeply about what you're doing. I'd suggest to try to talk to your boyfriend about this if you can. Maybe that could help. Sending many hugs to you