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Originally Posted by Xynesthesia
What is interesting is that many people get just attached to the “bad object” as the “good” one, or even more... Crave constancy and all. I find that a very intriguing aspect of human nature and it is definitely not only in therapy.
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Interesting observation. I think for me it's because I don't have constancy within myself? So I want to attached to something stable -- one way or the other -- outside of me? That would be consistent, maybe, with the diagnosis I got 8 years ago of DDNOS. I'm doing some better, but it still a long "heal", maybe. But it may be a more universal phenomenon -- people don't like uncertainty?
Sorry if this seems like a hijack, Lrad. Please let me know if it feels like that to you, or any other negative reactions you have.