For those who have grown (overly) attached to their Ts, how did you tell your T you were becoming attached? I’m not overly attached to DBT T yet, but I’m afraid I will become attached. It seems like the logical scenario, after growing attached to my last two Ts. I would like to “problem solve” with her by asking her what if questions, like: “What if I grow attached to you?" "What ifI fall into a similar dynamic with you as I did with ex T?" "Do you think you could handle it or would you refer me on?”

I want to have this conversation but I’m afraid, like always, I’ll scare her away.