Thanks. Yes, my T even said that it´s possible to "fall in love" with a therapist which I already knew but when the actual feelings were there she couldn´t handle it. She was an alternative therapist and by that I know she isn´t educated about transference or how to work with attachment.


As you say connection is encouraged and should be honored but in my case I think my T felt too strongly about me, not in a loving sense but more that she was afraid I´d hurt myself if she´d leave me. She told me she was worried how I´d react if she told me we had to end therapy and I believe she was. But that´s also part of lacking knowledge, especially as I never said anything about hurting myself or similar when therapy had to end.


Yes, I wish every day I could do something about her betrayal, you mention "shooting rubber bands" but unfortunately there´s nothing to do about it. An angry letter or similar won´t change anything as she won´t respond.