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Default Jan 18, 2019 at 09:03 AM
 
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Originally Posted by ennie View Post
Yes, I mean I know you are always supposed to side with your own blood-relative and never your ex in-laws. That's family-loyalty. But I prefer not to take sides at all. In fact, don't some people even prefer that their family not get involved in their divorce?
I know that I preferred the not taking sides. Not to say that I wanted my experience invalidated and dismissed as though nothing happened for which something most definitely happened, at the same time, I preferred that everyone behave like adults around me for the benefit of my kids. My own childhood experience from the fallout of my own parents divorce was brutal. It was immature and unnecessary.
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