Thank you very much for your reply! I appreciate and agree with your points, especially that my mother is doing what she thinks is right per treatment by her parents and she is not going to change at 88. So I have no clue how to handle this. I drive them to their appointments-which is where she raised her voice to shame me. I’m almost 60! I cannot deal with another bout of this and having to worry if she or my father will take away my monthly support and payment for my therapist. So, what do I do? I am so anxious after what happened 1 and 1/2 weeks ago-I cannot stop
Worrying. I don’t know if I can make it through this. It’s too stressful and painful.