I recall replying to your introductory post. Thanks for posting this thread.
I'm not an Aspie. So I'm not the member you wanted to hear from here. But I noticed no one has replied to your post.
So I thought I would. Sometimes it can take a bit of time to become known here on PC. But the more you post, & reply to other members' posts, the more a part of the community you will become.
So please keep posting.