When a new one seems to *appear*, we try to figure out what their job is. We found some hide the trauma. It takes several to present *normal*to the world. One deals with doctors. A couple work etc. In our system each was created for a reason. When we find the reason not only can we better understand but we know who to call on when we need help. One we joke about a lot is OCD & a clean freak.She keeps our place orderly & clean.A place for everything & everything in it's place. Call her our live in maid service! But she's acutely aware of a change in our environment which in our traumatic past was a clue to danger. Is it ok? No. But they helped us survive when others in our same situation didn't. Kept us functional when others ended up institutionalized. You all can work together. There are just days when we want to scream enough is enough. Go away. So we do. Even kick & scream & throw things & lecture God. Then we calm down & greet the new one.