The idea of moving is getting real, and I'm starting to consider what is really best for me. Drop the fight and think it through. If mom would stay put, I'd probably stay put. Mom is planning to move to the county that removes me from my current services, and puts me with the people partially responsible for the death of my son.

My case manager saw me broken down, not the seemingly normal person I am now. She's seen the improvement. I don't want someone who would doubt my disability.

This unit is a great opportunity. Newly renovated, subsidized. I could establish my independence while mom was still alive. Rather than be forced into upon her death.

I really have to think what is best for me. Security, company, less financial stress. Versus daughter, services, independence. Suggestions?