I'm so sorry you're struggling, pythocles From what you wrote, I agree that she may be suffering from depression. The only way to know for sure is to go to a doctor and get a proper diagnosis. I'd suggest to have a serious talk to your wife about this and try to convince her to talk to a doctor and see how it goes from there. Make her understand how this is important, both for you and for her. I'm so sorry, I know how hard it is when a person we love is suffering from depression. Please don't give up. I wish the best of luck to you and your wife. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this