awww, that sounds like a great exchange LT. At first I wanted to tease about how awful this or that or whatever, hoping you'd catch I was teasing ... coming from me. Then I read the post. I thought this exchange was really good. I like your T's take on emails. I haven't read all your IST posts so I don't know the whole story. I think he's been clear/consistent on the boundary and I think that is more important than what they are. I get the huge desire to be green. Good job opening yourself up to the feedback from him. It can be hard to get that reality check when we fear the answer is the negative thing we perceive it to be.

Take care.