LT
Sadly there is some rude people on here. Just gotta learn to not care what everyone thinks. If you find things helpful, fine. Just ask yourself now and then, if it's still gonna be helpful in the long run, meaning... you don't want a repeat of ex MC and I think alot of people here are trying to be protective of you and help you avoid then, hence the advice/comments. I know that's where my views come from. I see patterns and I start to worry, because I don't want you going through that hell again, especially now that I've experienced something similar. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. So not every "harsh" comment is mean or judging, it can come from a place of care/concern