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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I guess the birthday thing, it would just be like I'd mention the next day was my birthday to ex-T or actually last year to current T (I'm going to a concert tomorrow on my birthday), and to me, a friend or coworker would just be like "Oh, happy birthday!" While it seemed like they just wouldn't say it. So I think I figured maybe there was some sort of thing about it, but maybe it's just them...though turns out I guess it's not a thing for current T anyway. Maybe ex-T was just weird...
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I thought that not saying happy birthday was some sort of therapist thing too! Whenever I’ve casually mentioned my birthday, none of my Ts have ever said happy birthday. Almost like if they said it they would be imposing their own view of birthdays onto the client? I always thought it was kinda strange since like you said, if it was a friend or really anyone else, they’d just say it casually.