Hello,
What is to be confident about oneself to you? How do you feel when you feel confident?
For example, I feel that I am unlovable, that I will never attract a good man for myself.. that I am not: I dont even know what... not pretty enough, not smart enough, no suitable "career".. that I am just plain "unlucky".. like a "loser" from birth.. like my life is a life of a loser! People have told me that I lack self-confidence, or maybe self-esteem and that I must learn to "love" myself! But it is hard for me... I personally feel, that to attract a man I love and want.. is almost "impossible" because.. well, because I am I - a loser!