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Originally Posted by hEALerCOol
...What i am trying to find is is there any way that i could lessen my fear or angry towards their fights? I am afraid that one day i might actually do something that would hurt her.  |
Real sorry you're having to deal with such arguing, hEALerCOol. I remember how it was from my past as well - yes, it was terrifying. Horrible.
I really don't know what will work for you, but can you keep reminding yourself that you love your mother & father? Perhaps that could help you. Whenever the yelling begins, just remind yourself that you have love for your parents, that they're just people having a difficult time, that you love them, especially your mum. It may lessen some of the anger and fear you feel at the time. Give it a try.
Big hugs to you, hEALerCOol.