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Default Feb 07, 2019 at 12:47 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Manaolana98 View Post
Hi all,

Whether you've gone no contact or been on its receiving end, did it really solve anything?
Going no-contact (well, more like almost-no-contact since it's a family member whom I bump into from time to time) gave me more peace.

Once I found out she lied to me several times, I decided I don't want to be close to someone whom I cannot trust. I had no interest in investigating what else she lied about, and spend the rest of my life having to constantly worry about this. In other words, what else she lied about is not relevant since she is no longer a part of my daily life.

But it sounds like you want to invest in a relationship with this person. I respect your choice, but I don't know what advice to give you in this case, other than to share from my own experience.
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Thanks for this!
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