I'm so sorry for you and your husband, ejo84 I think it's great that he's working through his issues and that you're supporting him. I understand it must be pretty hard to deal with all of this. But from what you wrote, it sounds like you're handling all of this pretty well. Just try to listen to what he has to say, be there to support him and remember him that you're there for him. Remember that he's the one that has to go through this. You can only do so much to help. Remember to take care of yourself as well! That's really important. How do you think you would react if you found out that he did actually cheat on you? Unfortunately this kind of thing can happen. I hope things will get better soon for the both fo you. You're both in my thoughts and prayers. Remember that we're here for you. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you