Hello lokiez: I'm sorry I'm not able to comment on your concerns. But I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central. One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the partners of people & caregivers forum. Here's a link:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/part...ivers-support/

And then here are links to 4 articles, from Psych Central's archives, that may be of interest:

Asperger's Syndrome

Debunking 6 Myths About Asperger Syndrome

Neuroscience Sheds Light on Why People with Asperger's Syndrome Lack Empathy

Helping Someone with Asperger Syndrome Bridge the Gap between Cognitive and Emotional Empathy

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.